How To Kiss A Girl And Make It Past The “Friend” Zone
January 20, 2010 by Maurice Jackson · Leave a Comment
If you are looking for some good advice on how to kiss a girl you have come to the right place. Wanting to know the best way to give a kiss is the basic premise of being a good kisser. You want to please someone else and you do not want to be bad at it. Here is some advice for the novice or the one who needs to get better at it.
First of all let us talk about what you should not do. There is nothing like a bad kisser. You can be the most gorgeous guy in the world, have the best personality, and be the top ten on the list to have a relationship with. But if you suck in the kissing department you may end up forever on the friends list.
Number one thing to remember is that you are kissing a girl and not eating an ice cream cone. You are not trying to figure out how to get a good bite. We’re talking about passion, not an attack. It is not a good thing to try to get a bite when you want to leave a great impression as a kisser. Keep those lips stuck to hers, no pausing for a fresh bite.
Another big factor is that you are not a robot. Relax those lips and remember stiff lips sinks relationships. Loosen up and relax. But don’t overdo the loose lips and go jelly fish on a girl. No one wants to make out with a noodle. Somewhere in between is good. You have a lot of muscles in your face so use them.
The most important thing to remember when kissing a girl is what leads up to the kiss. Women are led to respond to a kiss when it is led up to with a interchange that creates the need for an emotional response. Any true connection at the emotional level, even a shared laugh preceding the kiss will elicit an emotional response which includes kissing. Any emotional response comes from a girl feeling safe, loved and appreciated and not an object of conquest.
A kiss on the lips is one of the most personal things a girl can do. It is a giving of herself. It is sensual and not sexual. The sense of wanting to kiss you is from the heart. The sensual can lead to sexual but it starts on the sensual side as she responds to the kiss. Remember not to be in attack mode, it’s a response. modemode. 
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A Match Made In Heaven?
January 3, 2010 by Shaniyah Benson · Leave a Comment
With the excitement and promise of new love, it’s easy to overlook major personal differences in a relationship. Yet you’ve got to wonder, could the differences you find endearing now become too much to bear years from now? Before going too far into the tunnel of love, stop and ask yourself seven vital compatibility questions.
1. Are you really attracted to your partner? Sometimes it’s just not enough to think highly of a person. To maintain a long term relationship, the role of physical attraction is important and you should be able to determine if it exists or not at a pretty early stage.
2. Are you able to communicate effectively? In some cases the physical attraction is there and you are pushing forward with a relationship without stopping to ask yourself if this is really the type of person you can talk to and understand on a subtle level. While differences in style should not make you worry, you should look closely at the type of communication you have to make sure it is open and honest. If you don’t feel it, it could present problems in the future.
3. How do you function together in public settings? Some people have very different needs when it comes to their social life and activities. Make sure to check that you are on the same page. Otherwise, you might find yourself in a situation where one of you is just not fulfilled socially and will look to strike out on their own. This can lead in some cases to growing apart and separating.
4. Do you share similar values, politics and religious beliefs? You don’t have to be identical in what you believe in but f it is important to you it is useful to check it out early. There are certain things that for certain people would just not work. The most important thing in this case is to be honest and to talk about what you find important and what your main principles are.
5: Did Your Partner Cheat on You? Maybe your ex cheated on you and it still hurts like hell. Was it a one-time slip on their part? Did it happen during a bad time in your relationship? Have they promised it’ll never happen again? Are they sincerely sorry?
6. Are your lifestyles compatible? You and your partner might have very different ideas in regards to the type of lifestyle you are after. This can lead to problems down the road. The best thing is to talk about it, understand how much each of you is willing to spend on an apartment for instance or other major expenses.
7: Do Your Share Dreams, Goals? If you’re of child-bearing age, would you like to have children? What about him/her? Do you dream of pulling up stakes and traveling freely, while he/she wants to build a home and nest there? Differences don’t mean anyone is wrong. It just means you want different things.
Shaniyah Benson is an author for psychic readings website Asknow.com. She is an author mainly on topics of love and career on the psychics network website.
Ladies… Learn To Love Yourself & Express Yourself
December 8, 2009 by Erika Ferrerat · Leave a Comment
Atlanta resident, Amber Leigh Salisbury is not only a world acclaimed radio host but is also a motivational speaker who focus on life and love coaching. She has made it her ambition in life to teach women how to empower themselves and learn how to express themselves naturally.
Salisbury knows the importance of self confidence when it comes to getting your voice heard in today’s society. Step number one is believing in yourself.
So many women out there today feel that they are not confident enough to express themselves properly. Salisbury strives to release the unheard voices of many wonderful women who feel trapped in their own lives.
Salisbury has designed seminars which teach ladies everywhere to “Get Your Flirt On”. Through these seminars, she teaches women the tools necessary to realize your worth and take note of how great you are. These tools are essential in coming across as naturally self confident.
Salisbury believes that if women can learn to love themselves they will develop the all important sense of self. Women who can find this power within themselves are more sure of themselves and confident and this will always shine through in the way that someone carries themselves and interacts with people.
The important thing is to stay real. If people get the sense that you are putting on a show or an act, they will be less likely to take you seriously. It is for this reason that you need to believe in yourself and your position in life or cause.
Once you learn to love your life you will allow others to love it with you. You will begin to create a positive energy around you and this will encourage people to actually hear what you are saying and take you seriously.
Finding your self confidence may take time but once you get a taste for the success and that first time that you feel that people are truly listening to what you say you will grow from there. Once you get the feel for it, it will come naturally and soon confidence will overflow.
Amber Leigh Salisbury holds the title radio host, motivational speaker, life coach and Atlanta Love Coach. Her goal is to help women to learn to express themselves naturally. More info now on http://www.threekeystohavingitall.com/
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Can You Find Love With Online Dating
April 5, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment
If you have discovered the world of online dating you may be wondering if love could be a possibility. Love can definitely be a possibility for online daters and if you take the time you can find the person of your dreams.
When you sign up for a site you will want to make sure that it is geared towards long term relationships. There are some sites out there that are designed for “hook ups” or other short term relationships. This is not the site for you if you are looking for a life long relationship; you want to find like minded people that are ready for commitment.
You also should look at a potential mates profile thoroughly to ensure that you both want the same thing before you pursue anyone. This is a good way to start the relationship off right with a person that has the same goals as you.
You can also sign up for more than one site. You are not limited or restricted to one site and you can find a wider array of people on different sites. You may also want to explore a “singles” online community to keep in touch with others.
You are not obligated to date just
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