How To Kiss A Girl And Make It Past The “Friend” Zone

January 20, 2010 by Maurice Jackson 

If you are looking for some good advice on how to kiss a girl you have come to the right place. Wanting to know the best way to give a kiss is the basic premise of being a good kisser. You want to please someone else and you do not want to be bad at it. Here is some advice for the novice or the one who needs to get better at it.

First of all let us talk about what you should not do. There is nothing like a bad kisser. You can be the most gorgeous guy in the world, have the best personality, and be the top ten on the list to have a relationship with. But if you suck in the kissing department you may end up forever on the friends list.

Number one thing to remember is that you are kissing a girl and not eating an ice cream cone.  You are not trying to figure out how to get a good bite.  We’re talking about passion, not an  attack. It is not a good thing to try to get a bite when you want to leave a great impression as a kisser. Keep those lips stuck to hers, no pausing for a fresh bite.

Another big factor is that you are not a robot. Relax those lips and remember stiff lips sinks relationships. Loosen up and relax. But don’t overdo the loose lips and go jelly fish on a girl. No one wants to make out with a noodle. Somewhere in between is good. You have a lot of muscles in your face so use them.

The most important thing to remember when kissing a girl is what leads up to the kiss. Women are led to respond to a kiss when it is led up to with a interchange that creates the need for an emotional response. Any true connection at the emotional level, even a shared laugh preceding the kiss will elicit an emotional response which includes kissing.   Any emotional response comes from a girl feeling safe, loved and appreciated and not an object of conquest.

A kiss on the lips is one of the most personal things a girl can do. It is a giving of herself. It is sensual and not sexual. The sense of wanting to kiss you is from the heart. The sensual can lead to sexual but it starts on the sensual side as she responds to the kiss. Remember not to be in attack mode, it’s a response. modemode. I kissed a girl and I liked it

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